I’m sure you’ve heard of the soft life trend by now- an online movement encouraging black women to live a life of comfort and ease. The term has become popular amongst the influencer community. But every one has different interpretations of what it means, and that’s okay. This is one of those things that will be unique to an individual’s needs. Some people are taking extreme measures and quitting their jobs. While others are taking baby steps in the form of self care rituals.
For me, a soft life means living a life that is balanced, low stress and worry free- while doing the things that bring me peace and joy. I want this for me us. Not as a trending movement. But as a lifestyle. I believe a soft life is attainable for anyone if you do the necessary internal (and external) work. Adopt these habits to help manifest a soft life.
PRIORITIZE YOURSELF
Living a soft life begins with putting yourself first and prioritizing your peace. Nothing can disturb your peace of mind unless you allow it to. Make a habit of removing yourself from situations that causes stress, makes you unhappy or otherwise disturbs your peace. End that struggle relationship. Quit the job that you hate. Relocate. It may take some time to muster up the courage but you got this- Faith Over Fear.
Also make a habit of doing things that bring you peace and happiness. Start that business. Take the trip. Designate some time for self care and pampering. Sometimes it’s the little things that make a big difference.
SET BOUNDARIES
Setting healthy personal boundaries and sticking to them is an important aspect of a soft life. Be intentional about what you want for your life and what you absolutely will not allow. Make a habit of clearly communicating your boundaries to others when necessary, and removing from your life those individuals who consistently overstep, or don’t respect your boundaries. This is another way of prioritizing your peace.
SAY NO
Make a habit of saying no without explanation and don’t feel guilty about it. People will be upset with you. So what. They will eventually get over it. You are not obligated to do anything that you don’t want to. It circles back to putting yourself first. This habit may be the hardest to adopt, but will get easier with time and practice. So practice often.
Adopting these three habits will help you manifest a soft life and live an overall healthier lifestyle. That’ s the end goal no matter what label you put on it. Watch my Soft Life Sunday Vlog to see how I spent a day giving myself a taste of the lifestyle that I’m manifesting.
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Wow! this certainly was a beautiful Blog. I really love the pampering routines that you provided. It was very informative. I was thrilled about the one day juice Cleanse. It looked like number 5 juice really had you up in arms. That was hilarious! I’m very proud of you for sticking with the routine for the entire day and not cheating. I certainly am encouraged and inspired to try it at least for one day like you did. Continue making beautiful Blogs like this, I’m always checking them out. Happy New Year’s to you and I look forward to seeing many more.
Thank you so much. I am glad that you’ve been enjoying my blogs and vlogs. Happy New Year to you as well! ❤️